Dear Harriette: It seems that, apart from inflation, the world has almost returned to the order prior to the pandemic.
Some of the changes that came with COVID-19, such as using masks and working from home, seem to be less important for some people.
During the last two years, my work has a leg hybrid, working four days in the office and one day at home. In general, the company’s performance has been star.
Despite that, the superiors say they want us to work in the office five days a week, which I think is insufficient control for employees.
We have a day at home to take a break from travel, have an extra hour or sleep, make a message in our pauses for lunch, and still work! Why do they have to remove that if the company is still working well?
I know that the labor market is difficult, but do you think this is a valid reasson to leave my job?
I want to be in a place that recognizes that there is more in life than just working, but I’m not sure if that really exists anywhere.
-The employee in person
Dear used in person: I regret to inform that many companies have legs trying to discover how to bring their staff to the office full time. When the United States government required that all federal employees join the workforce of the office in full -time office, many other companies were put online.
Should this new rule send you to look for a new job? It does not seem to me. Instead, open a dialogue with your supervisor to see if there is any margin of maneuver for a four -day week, if not every week, maybe sometimes.
You can keep your eyes open for remote job opportunities, but it is advisable to accept that the way people work always change, and must be willing to be adaptable.
Dear Harriette: I think I’m still in love with my ex. Is it possible that it was not the right time for us?
He and I met each other for the first time in a party in a party in December, and it is as if we resume where we leave it. At first there was a subtle avoidance, but he checked me during the night and insisted that he took me home later.
I always appreciated how I would take care of me.
As it was just one night, I decided not to do it more than it was. I wanted to start a pattern again.
Then, last week he approached and invited me to see the interpretation of the music group, something he used to do when we were in a relationship.
All these reminders of the past are causing feelings that I had for him, and makes me ask me if I am still in love with him. If so, should I act accordingly?
– Correct time
Dear correct time: Take a pause and evaluate the situation as objective as possible.
Write what worked on your relationship in the past and what not. What made you happy to be with him? What prompted you to end the relationship?
If your evaluation suggests that there could be something that explores in Horth, progress. Be sure to speak it so that both enter with your eyes open.
Harriette Cole is one of life and founder of Dreamlepers, an initiative to help people access and activate their dreams. You can send questions to askharriette@harrietcole.com oc/or Andrews McMeel Syndionction, 1130 Walnut St., Kansas City, MO 64106.