Dear Abby: My daughter -in -law is very stubborn. Sometimes we get along. But, in the past, she has bothered me accusing me or not doing the right thing. She and my son have two young children together and the total custody of her son of another mother.
I congratulated my grandson when taking care of her little sister at her birthday party and I will tolerate that this was the case, since the other girls intimidated her while he was standing and watched. My grandson has gone through a lot, and I bothered myself and told my son: “You might consider the partners you chose!” Note that all this was done by text.
I have help with my grandson every time it was requested. My daughter -in -law is now accusing me or preferring my grandson about their children, which is not the case. Now we have a fractured relationship and it seems that we cannot solve it. Please, can you help? – Fractured in Australia
Dear fractured: All their grandchildren share the same father, regardless of who his mothers are. His grandson could have handled the problem of intimidation better than him, but he may not have known how to step on. (Or may not have felt that it was strong enough to intervene).
If he knows he was happening, he could know the fulfillment that is great, the child was not justified. However, for you to have told your child that what you did to his wife was insulting and unpleasant. Begin to apologize profusely to her and Your child for losing the stirrups and saying something so hurtful. If he does, he can start healing the violation.
Dear Abby: I have married for 33 years. My husband is great and it treats me well. We had no problems. Recently I contacted my first boyfriend 40 years ago. We have text messages to the legs daily. We also talk on the phone, etc., and so is the fort. All the feelings I had for him resurfaced, which is not good, since I am married.
I have shed many tears on him (he is also married) and I can’t stop thinking about him. Do I keep the husband with whom I have been for 33 years or risk with the old boyfriend? He says he still loves me and has never forgotten me. Would your wife divorce to be with me? Probably. I am divided by two lovers and I feel like a fool. Advice? – Facing an election in the east
Dear Front: Who approached who first? If it were you, why did you open Pandora’s box looking for this man? And why has the thesis and telephone calls continued “, and so on? I urge you to explore this before exploiting a 33 -year -old marriage with a husband who is great and treats him well. Does your first love marry you? Who knows? Your husband would ever forgive you? Maybe not. Execute this for a licenseed therapist that can help him straighten the strudel in his noodle.
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